NOTE: This is a special time in Dare, Darling where we're keeping the group small & exclusive
so spots are limited & by application only. Applications are considered 2-3x/year.
The most valuable part of Dare, Darling is YOU - our members. We're looking for doctors who are ready to face themselves, ask the hard questions & dig deep for the answers that we all need to hear & the inspiration that will be the rocket fuel for us all in Dare, Darling.
Dare, Darling members have also used CPD allowances for the professional coaching & personal development education within Dare, Darling. Enquire with your CPD Home or health service.
"How is she so calm?"
"How is she so confident?"
"How is she so in control in that situation?"
That's what they'll see in you.
Dare, Darling is the transformative group coaching membership for doctors who are people-pleasers and forever feeling not enough.
We make caring doctors like you unshakeable so that you can finally live a life worthy of yourself - without losing the compassionate, thoughtful person you are.
You see others navigating the same pressures with confidence.
They’re not cold or selfish. They’re just clear.
And you could be, too.
Face yourself, back yourself, trust yourself again.
Become someone you can count on again.
You won't miss your people-pleasing.
You'll only wish you'd set yourself free sooner - you'll think, basking in your new-found sense of energy, integrity and certainty about what's most important.
You’re so busy keeping up with expectations that you don’t even know what you want anymore. No wonder your confidence is crumbling.
You’re so busy proving yourself to everyone else that you don’t even trust yourself anymore.
You thought making everyone happy would make you feel secure. Instead, it’s made you feel more and more unsure.
The more you try to be 'kind' by avoiding conflict and taking up space, the more you silence and shrink yourself. No wonder you think you can't be both kind and confident.
You keep pushing through exhaustion, hoping confidence will come. But that self-abandonment is precisely what's killing your confidence. Time for a new strategy.
A group a doctors that get you
Is Dare Darling your solution?
✔ You’ve tried being more assertive, but it felt wrong—like you were being selfish or letting people down.
✔ You’ve nodded your head to the podcasts and self-development books, tried mindfulness apps, or even gone to therapy but it's not created change in your day-to-day dilemas
✔ You want to feel unshakeable - like you can trust yourself and you're solid in your sense of self and what matters.
✔ You’re ready to build confidence from respect for yourself and start taking the opportunities you deserve.
People-pleasing is hijacking your decisions & unshakeable CONFIDENCE.
Can you diagnose the signs of people-pleasing running your life?
🔍 Making a mistake, someone doubting you or goodness forbid disliking you makes you question if you're actually a bad or incompetent person.
🔍 You wish for feedback or reassurance because deep down, you don’t trust your own judgment.
🔍 You look to others for confirmation of the right decision or right path. If you have a different opinion or perspective, you assume you must be wrong or missing something.
🔍 You stay late, over-work and over prepare - because you believe the reason you're not running on time is you're not as smart, skilled or efficient as everyone else and so you need to make up for it.
🔍 You silence your frustration when others dismiss or overlook you because rocking the boat or being seen as 'complaining' is one of the worst things you think you could do.
🔍 You avoid difficult conversations with your colleagues because you don’t want to be seen as ‘difficult’ or demanding.
🔍 You hold back in meetings or case discussions—even when you're pretty sure you have the answer—because you’re afraid of looking stupid. Or arrogant. And you're especially afraid of questioning and offending someone.
🔍 You adjust your tone, soften your opinions, or downplay your needs to avoid making others uncomfortable or seeming like you're 'too much' or 'too difficult'.
🔍 You let patients, colleagues, or even friends push your boundaries because saying no feels ‘mean’ or ‘selfish' and you think the most valuable thing about you is pouring more into other people and going the extra mile
🔍 You find yourself replaying conversations in your head after ward rounds, worried you sounded incompetent or upset someone.
🔍 You find yourself ruminating on and revisiting decisions - big and small - because you really want to get it right.
🔍 You take on tasks that aren’t yours—fixing colleagues' mistakes, mentoring juniors, or smoothing over tensions—because it's easier to do it yourself than give 'negative' feedback and delegate.
🔍 You hesitate to set boundaries with patients or colleagues because the last thing you want is to be seen as unhelpful, selfish or ‘not a team player.’
🔍 You take on emotional labor that isn’t yours—managing people’s feelings, fixing their discomfort— because you feel so uncomfortable focusing on yourself when others are struggling or unhappy.
🔍 You’re afraid to ask for help—because deep down, you think wanting support proves you're not as competent as everyone else.
🔍 When you're not working, you're feeling empty and in recovery mode because you've learned that rest is earned and only necessary when you're on empty.
🔍 You brush off off compliments or downplaying your achievements because you don’t truly believe you’ve earned them yet and you're scared to be ignorant or worse - arrogant.
🔍 You diligently work to get others to like you or see you as competent because put so much weight on their seal of approval as to whether you're a doing it right or really belong here.
🔍 You are 'temporarily' ignoring your own exhaustion, frustration, or unhappiness because you’ve convinced yourself that once you’re ‘better’ at your job, you’ll finally feel good enough.
🔍 You tell yourself you’ll feel more confident once you achieve ‘the next thing’—whether it’s one you're finally up to date on the research, finally efficient in clinic or on rounds, finally a few years settled into being a consultant or finally getting fellowship.
🔍 You are baffled looking at how other people do medicine and life seemingly calm, confident and in control because no matter how hard you work or how good you get, you don't seem to feel better.
Join Dare, Darling
Attend your first live call or dive into the call replays & curriculum
Enjoy being back in control & the person you're proud of again
Join us in the new standard
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Our members have used Dare Darling to get back into their power & choice.
"Dare Darling, has been a great aid in giving me my ‘choice’ back by reminding me of that power and helping to teach the tools to use that in everyday life."
"I now find myself questionning my own thoughts - the thoughts I have about myself, my role in the world and the way I want to show up for others in my life - both personally and professionally."
I'll teach you how your mind works & train you in the skills to make it work for you.And I'll train you up in the mindsets that make you UNSHAKEABLE. It's time to give you control back.
We make doctors UNSHAKEABLE
so that they can live
a life worthy of themselves.
As doctors, we need more than just confidence from power poses and positive thinking.
We need confidence that prevails in the adversity and uncertainty of our daily lives in medicine.
We need unshakeable confidence.
We deserve unshakeable confidence.
And that's what we create in Dare, Darling.
We've unsubscribed from 'fake it til you make it'.
Face it til you make it.
With us.
What kind of results can you create with Mindset Coaching?
Our members recommend Dare, Darling to their colleagues (& even their loved ones)
Their advice:
"Dare for something greater in yourself ... in a nourshing, supportive environment of high acheivers from all different areas of medicine."
"I don't have anything to hide. I can just be myself and be honest."
My client, an impressive leader, practice owner, and clinician had untapped potential. Her ideas about how she 'should' show up as a leader with her staff were getting in the way of her strengths. By becoming less judgmental of herself, she did the same for her staff and started feeling free to have the candid yet caring conversations that made her feel authentic and connected and that kept their culture strong and their practice & productivity high.
"My anxiety doesn't control me anymore."
My client had always said to her partner "My anxiety controls my life". After practicing and applying our coaching processes in her challenging day-in-the-life as an O&G registrar studying for exams and a new mother, she finally realised her power in her life.
"I like myself again."
My client had felt chronically frustrated and disappointed with herself. She couldn't live up to her standards and her decisions caused her guilt no matter how well-intended and carefully considered they were... Either way, she felt she would be letting someone down and/or letting herself down. Through our work, she found her integrity and she is now living it. Now, she makes hard decisions, she does hard things, AND she is proud of the way she shows up to these challenges. As a result, she likes herself even in the hard times.
"I always have a choice."
My client no longer plays into the story that she's stuck or her hand is forced in her life. When she's with difficult people, she doesn't let them lower her standard. She doesn't feel suck anywhere. She remembers this truth and she is at once relieved and truly empowered.
"I no longer reach for a glass of wine at the end of the night. I don't need it."
My client's drinking was never a problem but after recognising the quiet hum of pressure and distress she was carrying around all day in the clinic, as a leader in her practice, and parenting her 3 children, she realised that drink was actually a facilitator for relief. After swiftly gaining a high level of emotional intelligence from her mind management work, she naturally chose to take care of herself instead of muting herself.
Dare, Darling System
Raise your standards & build the skill to uphold them in your daily life.
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We un-learn disempowerment & raise your standards
We've accidentally, innocently learned disempowering, limiting ideas about ourselves and how the world works. Instead of keeping these & using willpower to fight them, we reveal & remove energy-wasters so our hard work translates to rewarding work.
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We use neuroscience & psychology to create choice & control
It want to be able to uphold our standards, we need the cognitive & emotional skills to do it. Our brain, like the rest of our body, adapts to the stimulus that we give it. We need to practice and train these skills.
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We surround ourselves with people who we want to be like
When you make changes, those who benefit from your disempowerment or who aren't ready to face their own disempowerment may not like it or discourage you. Our community that understands & inspires you is an unmatched advantage
Membership structure
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Weekly live hot seat coaching call.
2-3 members get direct coaching.
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Audio library of 6 months' previous call recordings. Available in password-protected Membership Vault.
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My recommended Mind Management protocols (PDFs) to use to train self-awareness & enhance your results.
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My comprehensive curriculum with video lessons on how to self-coach & the Unshakeable Mindset. These are bonus materials to skyrocket your skills and transformation.
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Community of Dare, Darling members for connection & examples of what's possible. See how other successful women use coaching. Be inspired & uplifted by being in their high standard.
Some Key Details to Know:
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This is NOT a mental health service. Coaching is not a substitute for mental health professional services or therpay.
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Becc is not acting as a medical professional in the provision of this service. She will not be providing advice related to health. Members can request Mindset Coaching on health-related topics if they wish.
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Cancellation of the membership after 6 months does not incur any fees. Members can easily self-cancel their subscription within the Dare, Darling portal.
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Refunds: it's important to me that everyone in Dare, Darling feels it is the best deal ever to them. If you find that this membership is not the right place for you, you may cancel and receive a refund within the initial 28 days. We ask that you provide feedback to member@doctorbecc.com.au. You will receive a refund of your membership less a cancellation fee of $70 USD.
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Calls are currently alternating between 8 PM AEST Mondays week 1 & 7 PM AEST Tuesdays week 2. This is subject to change based on the group's needs. If you are in a different timezone, please notify me to accomodate you.
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There will be a total of 24 calls in each 6 month period (48 calls in a 52 week calendar period). Calls will not occur over the annual 2-week Christmas & New Year period & 6 months later at EOFY.
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Calls will in general occur each week but there will be occasional exceptions for Becc to take time away from work. When Becc has planned time away, 2 calls will occur in weeks proceeding and/or proceeding to ensure the weekly average is delivered.
Please carefully read the full terms and conditions of the membership.
Frequently asked questions
Dare, Darling
is NOT for you if
(1) you are at risk to yourself or others
(2) you are seeking medical care or advice or a mental health service
Dare, Darling does not provide services for the following:
1 / Mental Illness, Abuse and Trauma
Coaching is not a mental health service and coaching is not a therapeutic treatment for mental illness. Coaching is not a substitute for mental health services.
2 / Addiction with life-threatening consequences
Coaching is not a mental health service and is not suitable for people suffering from addiction with life-threatening consequences.
3 / Physical unsafety
Issues that relate to one's physical safety are not suitable for coaching. Those experiencing challenges that put their safety at risk require a robust professional, support system, which a coaching membership cannot provide.
4 / Medical treatment or health advice
This membership does not provide medical advice.
Doctor Becc is in no way acting in the capacity of a medical professional in this service.
Health coaching and advice is not provided.
Disclosure of any of the above or any illegal activity may result in mandatory reporting by Doctor Becc to the appropriate authority and standard confidentially will not be able to be maintained in such circumstances as per our Terms & Conditions.
There is a critical leadership transition point where we stop conflating having others like us with being a great
LEADER.
Stop setting
yourself
ON FIRE
to keep
other people warm.
I bet you can do it alone. But we're here so you don't need to.
If you knew that your daily dilemmas weren't so unique...
If you knew that other people were struggling with the exact same things...
If you knew you were normal and not extra-special-broken...
If you knew that sharing your stories and solutions helped other women like you...
Would you still do it alone?
